Still can’t find Bae? Don’t count on it happening anytime soon. Fact is a lot of students coming into university will graduate ...
Still can’t find Bae?
Don’t count on it happening anytime soon.
Fact is a lot of students coming into university will graduate single, not that there’s anything wrong in that, maybe you came for the studies or for the fun, who knows? Some say you don’t need bae as long as they get laid every so often. That’s the first reason you probably are/still/will be single. Sure sex is great but it’s not everything your other half can offer you. He/she can also be whom you confide in, enjoy spending time with and there in troubled times. It’s all about solidarity over lust.
Some people never seem to tire chasing over a little tail. You could be doing something beneficial with your life but nada, why not coax this mami to bed over a few drinks? Then rinse and repeat, every Thursday or weekend at your local. Doing this for about a month straight it gets a tad too repetitive. Yet you still think you’ll find bae at the bottom of the 8th glass.
Another reason why you’ll graduate single, is your standards. Are you looking for someone earning a six digit salary, has a house, shares your hobbies. What do you bring to the table? You can’t be a certain level of basic and look for something extraordinary, humble yourself and mingle within your reach. If you have such expectations, finding bae could be tedious. You’d probably turn away a couple of potential ‘suitors’ seeking qualities which you don’t have.
The other lot, they just love themselves too much. Don’t limit yourself to a specific type of lady/ man you think you deserve. That 10/10 you picture being by your side will probably remain a mere imagination cause guy X isn’t 6 foot with a brazen body or girl Y isn’t that bodacious video vixen. Contrary to what I’ve been saying, college is a good time in your life to be sexually adventurous (don’t use this as an excuse to be a nymphomaniac or modern day Casanova)
Being single isn’t a problem but you could do better. Having someone to make you a better person and vice versa > booty-call. You also prepare for the eventuality of life, knowing most of us will get married and you can’t treat your spouse the way you did your f*ckbuddy. Take those steps and learn how to be bae, maybe then you’ll find Bae.
A little wisdom from Reddit;
I was fifteen when I had my first real girlfriend, and my Dad was well prepared for this moment. So dad called my upstairs to his room and asked me to sit down. He said in a very steady tone, "Son, let me tell you a story."
"There was once a dog who used to live at a train station. One day, the dog fell asleep by the railroad tracks and left his tail on one of the tracks. Of course, eventually a train rolled by and ran over his tail. The dog was surprised and awoken by this sudden jolt and turned around to see what happened to his poor tail. When he turned his head, it too, got caught under the train and killed him. Do you know what the moral of this story is, son?"
No Dad what the hell could I possibly learn from that
"Don't lose your head over a little tail."
He then threw me a box of condoms and walked out of the room.
There’s a lot more we all could say to this, that’s why you can reply in the comment section. I could have added more but even I have to go and find Bae. Have a lovely week folks!