Follow these 10 really simple moves plus one bonus point, and you will surely be in a great position to seduce her and get her in bed....
Follow these 10 really simple
moves plus one bonus point, and you will surely be in a great position to seduce her and get her in
bed.
Use these moves one step at a time,
and as long as you play your cards right, she’d be in bed with you even if
there are several other guys trying to get her attention at the same time!
#1 Get close to her. If you want to seduce a girl, the
first thing you need to do is get to know her better. Don’t come on too strong
or she’d feel threatened or find you too easy to get, and may get bored of you.
Talk to her and get to know her
better. Text her now and then, and be warm and friendly. Don’t hit on her just
yet, but don’t behave like a doormat either!
#2 Be likeable. This is a pretty
important stage. And this is where you can actually tell if she’s warming up to
you or shrinking away from you. As you talk to her now and then, try to get to
know more about her and the things she likes.
Text her or talk to her frequently,
and try to bond over something both of you find interesting. If the things you
say seem to be working its magic, she’d start to enjoy your chats and your
texts and keep in touch with you.
But if you come across as a bore, she
may start to distance herself from you. She may avoid responding to your texts,
or she may take hours to respond to you. And eventually, she may just get bored
and avoid you completely. If you ever notice that she takes a while to get back
to you, you really need to talk about something else to keep things
interesting.
#3 Get active at night. The best way to get naughty and
intimate with a girl is by texting her late at night, or by calling her up when
she’s in bed. Start by texting late in the evening to begin with, and within a
day or two, she may be comfortable enough to text you or speak with you late
into the night even if she’s uncomfortable with the idea at first.
Keep the first couple of texting
conversations clean, and flirt casually without making it obvious that you’re
trying to get her to fall for you. Right now, all you need to do is get closer
to her and make her flirt back with you. Don’t try to get into her pants
already, or there’s a chance you may blow the whole thing off!
#4 Live two lives. This is where you need to confuse
her. Each time you speak with her at night or text her, be flirty and naughty.
But when you meet her during the day, don’t talk about the naughty texts at
all, unless she talks about it *which means she really likes the flirty
texts!*.
Completely avoid talking about the
texts when there are other friends around. But flirt with her when it’s just
the both of you. By doing this, you’d make her convince herself that there’s
already a secret passionate something brewing between the both of you, because
no one else knows what’s going on but the both of you. Who doesn’t love a bit
of fun, flirty secret drama in their life?
#5 Don’t let her know you like her. Many guys make this mistake here.
They tell the girl they like her, or that they have feelings for her. Of
course, you like her. She knows that already, doesn’t she? You text her all the
time, both of you flirt all the time, and she can definitely feel the chemistry.
But even though she has a hint that
you like her, she needs to hear it from you to confirm her doubts. Play it cool
and don’t confess your feelings for her anytime now. Her excitement and
curiosity would make her addicted to you. Revealing your affection for her will
kill the suspense, which won’t help you in any way.
#6 Get into her comfort zone. When you get some alone time with
her, sit closer to her and pretend like you didn’t notice how close you’re
sitting. You’ve been flirting with her, now you need to get into her personal
space to make her feel the s*xual chemistry.
Touch her arms or her fingers while
saying something, place your hands around her waist while sidestepping across
her or walking past her, touch her while complimenting her, or hug her for just
a second longer while saying goodbye.
#7 Build the s3xual tension. By now, she’d feel the s*xual tingle
each time you touch her accidentally or otherwise. This is where you need to
make her crave your touch. Let your hand linger on her back or on her arms as
you touch her. Go really close and whisper something in her ear. Speak softly
and play with her fingers when no one’s around. Build the s*xual attraction
right, and she’d turn into putty in your hands!
#8 Play games. If you’ve been flirting with her and
feeling her up now and then while sitting next to each other, you’ve seduced
her already and you’re in a great place to even take her to bed.
But if you want to play it safe and
take it slow, continue to text her late at night. Play a few naughty texting
games this time around, and initiate them casually. Before you know it, you’d
be seducing her while having fun and playing games with her at the same time.
#9 The dirty conversation. You’ve been texting her, flirting
with her and seducing her every single night. And if she’s been playing along
all this while, this is where you talk dirty and make the big move. Initiate a
dirty conversation over the phone. Start simple, and ask her a question that
seems innocent, but would definitely lead to something dirty. And before you
know it, both of you would be having phone s*x with each other!
#10 Ask her out. Once you’ve had phone s*x with her,
you’ve seduced her already. Now all you need to do is make out with each other
in person. Ask her out, or tell her you really want to meet her sometime. Make
plans to meet up in your place or hers, and avoid going out on a date unless
you’re trying to woo her or make her fall in love with you. This is where you
need to choose
#11 Make out with her! And when you
finally do meet her *and she knows why you want to meet her*, don’t jump on her
right away just because both of you have had phone s*x already.
You may just end up killing
the mood, or she may tell you that she’s not feeling the connection, which
would take you nowhere. Play it slow, warm up to the act and make sure she’s in
the mood before you try to kiss her for the first time.